The truth of the matter.
So - it's 10 years ago today? Not for me. For me it's 15 years and more! I've been watching the events on the 10th anniversary of the death of Diana, Princess of Wales, and I've been listening to the "expert" opinions of "why" this outward expression of sentiments. I think that it is simply a mixture of people who have never been touched by personal tragedy, and people who have. You see, at birth, one cannot choose one's parents, nor into what type of family one is born. Whether sentiments of care, of love are present or not is beyond your control. Did your parents have more a son or a daughter in mind, and got the reverse? Was the mentality of your parents such that affections had to be covered, was it a necessity to show the British "no sentimentality" feature - or whatever. You didn't choose the situation, and you had to make the best you could out of it, allowing for all possibilities. On the other hand, when you married, thi...